But what if you calculate that you and your partner have a kink compatibility of 0.6? Is that high, low, amazing, disappointing? I don’t know, nobody can really know at this point because we don’t know what the typical range of scores are.Ī more useful measurement tool might be percentile rankings, e.g. We know the mathematical limit of the kink compatibility index (KCI), it is impossible for it to return values below 0 or above 1. A list means we’re less likely to miss out something important in our kink negotiation while excited by the potential to play together. Also, I’m extremely prone to getting distracted. Going through different kinks and comparing answers with a partner works for me. As part of this you also start to understand what makes each other tick. For me that’s what a kink negotiation is all about, not simply comparing kinks but using it to open up conversations about what you have in common and start bouncing ideas back and forth. The way I’ve found it useful was as a starting point for conversations. If you’re new to this and unsure then there are some useful resources out there, but ultimately it’s about whatever helps this conversation with your partner or partners.

How exactly you go about a kink negotiation is personal. It’s a tool to aid a discussion of shared kinks and build a connection grounded in Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Kinktest believes 'Kinky is the new sexy'.So the honest answer is that you should use it however you want. Just as we believe: the more you know, the more capable you become to gain control over your sexual satisfaction.

Our site will guide you through the exploration of your sexual archetype, not only by testing your kinks out through a scientifically-designed kink test, but also empowering you with knowledge of a list of kinks.

Have you ever asked yourself the question 'what are my kinks?' If the answer is YES, you are not alone! Thousands of people want to explore the secrets behind their sexual behaviors. It is a rewarding process! You'll feel empowered to take control of the 'Compatibility.' That is 'doing the right thing with the right person' for the sake of BETTER SEX and BETTER LOVE! We believe the secret to having a wonderful sex life is knowing what turns you on.

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